Drama seems to be a major problem in my life. It's kind of a long story so I hope you are prepared to read. My aunt posted some pictures on Facebook of her kids because she is a proud momma and well she got her brother in some of them where his butt crack was showing. His wife and him threw a temper tantrum about him being in the pictures and told her not to post anymore pictures of them even though on their Facebook they have a picture of him being totally drunk with him laying in his bathroom floor with a bra strapped onto his head so me being protective of my aunt (hey, she helped raise me) I stood up for her on Facebook and told her to delete the bullshitters that they mean nothing and only want to see her upset. I then got chewed out and was told to drop when the only thing I had said was to delete them. I proceeded to post how our first amendment here in the United States was the freedom of speech and that includes social media and no one can take that away from anyone so she should be able to post whatever pictures she wants (unless they are nudes) and I would proceed to say what I wanted to in her defense. Now then on top of that my cousin has a daughter that is my age and he is dating a girl only a few years older than us. I say age is just a number but this girl has 3 kids and uses him. Well wouldn't you know her youngest kid isn't even a year old yet and she's already pregnant again. Well anyways they are having a daughter (I don't believe it's really my cousins child but whatever) and he wants to name this child a bunch of ghetto names and I'm sorry but in my opinion this child is white and you send it to school with some ghetto name she will get made fun of (yes they found out it's a girl). His first daughter spoke up on Facebook and said she didn't like them and everyone told him that it's his very first daughter that he should name her whatever he wants no matter what any one says and guess what, HE DIDN'T STAND UP FOR HIS FIRST DAUGHTER AT ALL LIKE SHE DON'T EXIST. Now that pisses me off because I have been through something similar and I know how bad it hurts. I posted two final statuses on Facebook, one stating not to piss off a pregnant lady and another saying I was going to log off before I said something to someone that I shouldn't. Del's fiancee commented on one of my things and said maybe things will cool down soon so I told her the truth "No this side of the family is nothing but drama and no one is happy unless they are hurting someone else and I'm done with them all because the mood I was in I would have gone to jail for beating the crap out of someone. I'm not normally a violent person but I can only stand by for so long before I snap. I am now getting ready to move out of town and away from my drama filled family because I will NOT let them drag my child into any drama and hurt my child or I will go off the deep end. Actually I'm kind of proud of myself I didn't go beat anyone up and I behaved for the most part I put no names in my posts or anything. I was hoping that by posting this blog I would get my stress and anger out but I'm not sure how well that worked. I guess I better go and I will post more tomorrow.
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